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REVIEW: 99 S’Mother by Adam Chester

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Title: S’Mother
Author: Adam Chester
Pages: 176
ISBN: 978-0810996458
[Rating:5]
Purchase: [Hardcover] [eBook]

Synopsis

(Taken from Amazon.com)
And you think your mom is too involved? Meet the mother of all mothers.

Adam Chester is the son of a very loving mom, who for almost 30 years has peppered his life with unsolicited advice, news updates, and opinions in the form of thousands of inappropriate, embarrassing, and utterly crazy letters. S’Mother is a hilarious memoir based on this correspondence showing the pathological extremes maternal instincts can take. Why is a grown woman so frantic that her adult son screw on his windows to keep out killer bees? And are adult trick-or-treaters really that much of a threat? Adam saved his mom’s letters as proof this all happened and reproduces many of them in the book. And now, with time, perspective, and plenty of therapy, he acknowledges and accepts the comedy of it all and is proud to share his story with you, if for no other reason than to make you feel better about your own mother.

Review

Oh this book gave me quite a few chuckles. S’Mother is a memoir showcasing Adam Chester’s looney mother and a few hundred insane letters she has sent him. Joan Chester is the epitome of overbearing and there is not a line she won’t cross. In fact, she reminded me of a Jewish Marie Barone (you know, from Everybody Loves Raymond).

Imagine as you will that you’re a young man going off to college. Now imagine moving across the continent just to be as far away from your mother as humanly possible. While most people go away to college and get the occasional phone call or email, imagine getting letters (hand written and mailed letters) in the mail almost every single day. For.the.rest.of.your.life. Joan Chester always had something to say. Often it was unsolicited advice, her will and testament (one of the many), something random about random people he didn’t know,  and sometimes — a little  bit TMI. (Do you care about your mothers bedroom antics? No, neither does he.)

I really enjoyed S’Mother. It was hilarious, sarcastic, and heart-warming. I never felt that Adam was hateful or truly belittling of his mother as other reviewers had stated. I simply believe that after a lifetime of being completely bombarded and mortified by her behavior, he had to poke fun and make light of the situation. I would need to as well — for the sake of my sanity.

S’Mother was an easy read and can be finished in just a few hours. It’ll make a wonderful gift for anyone with an overbearing mother. Heck, it’ll give you an appreciation for the mother that you have. Any time they start embarrassing you, just quietly whisper to yourself in a soothing mantra, “She’s no Joan Chester. She’s no Joan Chester.”

I definitely recommend S’mother. I found it a great read and I can’t wait to read more.. I am sure she’s written another novel of letters by now.

REVIEW: #87 1-2-3 Magic for Teachers


Title: 1-2-3 Magic for Teachers
Author: Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. & Sarah Janr Schonour, M.A.
ISBN: 9781889140179
Pages: 224

Synopsis: (Taken from back of book) Many teachers receive little or no formal training in classroom discipline and classroom management. Yet experienced educators will tell you if challenging student behaviors go unchecked, the entire year can be disrupted. Based on the best-selling and extremely popular 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12, 1-2-3 Magic for Teachers explains in a straightforward language exactly how teachers can establish and maintain reasonable control of their classrooms.

Review: I have not taught kindergarten (or any grade at all) in almost 3 years; not since the birth of my first daughter, one of my favorite things about teaching was taking my 5 year olds and giving them order. I liked that they knew what to expect, almost as if they were set on automatic. In order to assure your classroom can run efficiently in your absense, it is important that a great classroom rules, procedure, and routine is set up right away.

1-2-3 Magic for Teachers is not like other discipline books. It is very user friendly without the sense of boredom that other books on discipline have been known to have. It does not talk down to the reader, nor does it fill the pages with an overuse of impressive vocabulary. Reading it is like seeking the advice of a veteran teacher over morning coffee and a bagel.

The theory is around a 1-2-3 principal for stopping difficult behaviors and starting desired behaviors. We are also introduced to examples of popular discipline mistakes, something I have seen others do in their classrooms and/or their homes.

Part 2 and 3 revolves around managing difficult behaviors; behaviors such as peer conflicts, pouting, and trims. The author then goes on to explain the testing period, briefly, in preparation for those that are on the more difficult side than most.

Positive reinforcement is encouraged and I can say by experience that it is a must in every classroom, even if you are teaching adults. Everyone needs to know that something they have done does not go unrecognized. Reinforcing positive behaviors breeds more positive behaviors.

Like any teacher, not every scenario is by the book. How do you follow through with discipline while in the hallway, or outside, at lunch, or on a field trip? I’m sure you’ve heard or used the phrase, “Just wait until your father gets home!” in your household, but just how effective is it delaying behavioral feedback. The authors of 1-2-3 Magic for Teachers tells you exactly how to implement the behavioral strategies outside the comfort of your classroom.

It doesn’t stop there, however. We are given advice on developing relationships with our students that will foster good behavior. We learn about self esteem, fun, forgiveness, active listenig, and working as a team with their parents.

Part 7 discusses how you can impliment 1-2-3 Magic in preschools, daycares, junior, and senior high, as well as with special needs students.

I really feel that the authors did a great job at covering the bases with a variety of students that educators may come in contact with. The book is a quick read with a multitude of great advice and tips. Reading through it made me realize just how much I miss teaching. I really want to read their other book now so I can start implementing proper behavioral feedback with my 2.5 year old that is both consistent and positive.

If you would prefer to gain additional help with the 1-2-3 Magic concept, there is also a DVD available for more visual learners. On the DVD you can decide to either play the full presentation, choose your own topic, or look at the DVDs additional resources.

Not to give too much away (you’ll have to watch the DVD for yourself) I’ll go on to explain one of the sub topics of the DVD that you can choose from. I chose the etioic, “Step 2: Encouraging good behavior.” This specific sub topic runs about 19 minutes in length and has it’s own set of sub topics including praise, simple requests, charting, to name a few. You can click on “play all” or you can choose one of interest. I chose the “charting” topic. The video shows us examples of charting, complimentary with snippet interviews with teachers who implement these tactics in the classroom.

The DVD is an excellent supporting piece to the book and is perfect if you want to physically see examples and/or see the method in action prior to starting it in your own classroom.

I really recommend this book to any teacher. It would make great beginning of the year gift for a teacher you know, as well. To order the book directly from the publisher, you can visit their website ParentMagic.com.

Allison
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REVIEW: #80 The Handy Law Answer Book

Title: The Handy Law Answer Book
Author: David L. Hudson Jr., JD
ISBN: 978-1-57859-217-3
Pages: 450
[Rating:4]

Synopsis: (As taken from back of book)

Everyday we encounter the rules of law — from the time we decide to get married, or perhaps divorced, to making purchases with our credit cards or dealing with bankruptcy. Who couldn’t use a legal primer that answers hundreds of questions related to the history and practice of law in the United States? Let the Handy Law Answer Book help you navigate the system.

You’ll learn how to find a lawyer; what happens when you file a lawsuit or are sued by someone; what your rights in the workplace are; and what you can expect when you have your day in court. Plus, you’ll get tips on how to read those legal citations, as well as discover some fascinating — and quirky — legal cases.

Combining practical legal tips with an exhaustive overview of the law in the United States, the Handy Law Answer Book provides a history of the U.S. legal system, including the personalities who shaped it. You’ll get an introduction to various laws, important cases, court opinions, and how they all might affect you.

You’ll find answers to more than 800 questions, including …

  • Where did the word “tort” come from?
  • How are the state court judges selectd?
  • Where did the first U.S. Supreme Court meet?
  • How does the law define “marriage”?
  • What should you do if facing too much debt?
  • What is a “wobbler”?

About the Author: (As taken from the press release)

David L. Hudson, Jr. is the author or co-author of 24 books including The Handy Supreme Court Answer Book, The Rehnquist Court: Understanding Its Impact and Legacy, and (as co-editor with John Vile and David Schultz) The Encyclopedia of the First Amendment. He works as First Amendment Scholar for the First Amendment Center and teaches classes at Vanderbilt Law School, Nashville School of Law, and Middle Tennessee State University. Hudson earned his undergraduate degree from Duke University and his law degree from Vanderbilt Law School. He resides in the Middle Tennessee area with his wife, Carla, and two dogs, Gloria and Gucci.

Review:

The law is everywhere. Especially now that the economy has been in such a decline — with so many bankruptcies and foreclosures. On our street alone, I have witnessed over 4 foreclosures in the past two years. Many times, the houses sitting vacant for many months. I can’t help but wonder — did my neighbors understand their rights? Did they hire a good attorney to help get them out of debt; to start over and/or to work to save their home?

The law and all it’s jargon can be confusing to anyone who doesn’t have a natural interest and/or experience with it. Sitting with a lawyer can have you twiddling your thumbs and going “la la la” as you struggle to understand a word they are saying. The Handy Law Answer Book makes that experience a little less stressful and may help you feel more in control of the situation as you begin to understand the process.

The Handy Law Answer book is organized into a very easy format, and written so its understood by even the most clueless of clients. The chapters are organized into the following topics:

  1. Constitutional Law
  2. The Bill of Rights and the 14th Amendment
  3. The Court System
  4. Lawyers and Lawsuits
  5. Criminal Procedures
  6. Credit and Bankruptcy Law
  7. Employment Law
  8. Family Law
  9. Personal Injury Law

If you find yourself facing a particular situation, you can just skim ahead to the chapter(s) that correspond with your issue. Because so many people are facing bankruptcy, I’ll forward to that chapter to give you a little insight as to what you can find when you read that chapter.

In this chapter you’ll find quite a few questions answered (only a very select few being:)

  • What is APR?
  • What is a variable rate?
  • What is the Fair Credit Reporting Act?
  • What is the difference between a secured and unsecured creditor?
  • Can a consumer reporting agency send a credit report to prospective employers?
  • If a credit reporting agency unfairly refuses to correct a mistake, can you sue?
  • How long does negative information stay on my credit report?
  • What is credit insurance?
  • What are some ways to prevent identity theft?
  • What are home equity loans?

And the list goes on and on, and on. The chapter also goes into loans, debt collectors and the law, bankruptcy, Chapter 13 vs. Chapter 7. It is very unlikely that you will read the chapter and not understand your situation and/or the legalease you may come across as you go through your hardship.

Overall I found The Handy Law Answer book informative and an easy read. I only wish, though, that it included chapters on:

  • Copyright & Trademark Law
  • Starting a Business
  • Commercial Law

As those are legal inquiries that I, personally, would find most useful in my life as of now.  But who knows? Maybe David L. Hudson Jr. is working on books to cover these very subjects. :)

REVIEW: #65 Blankets by Craig Thompson

Title: Blankets
Author: Craig Thompson
ISBN: 1891830430
Pages: 592

Synopsis: (Taken from Amazon.com)

At 592 pages, Blankets may well be the single largest graphic novel ever published without being serialized first.

Wrapped in the landscape of a blustery Wisconsin winter, Blankets explores the sibling rivalry of two brothers growing up in the isolated country, and the budding romance of two coming-of-age lovers. A tale of security and discovery, of playfulness and tragedy, of a fall from grace and the origins of faith.

A profound and utterly beautiful work from Craig Thompson.

Review:

The first time I saw this book, I was in a little Japanese-style novelty shop in Winter Park Village.  (The shop, unfortunately, is no longer there!) I was interested to see a graphic novel that was as huge as it was and so unlike anything I had seen before. I did not purchase it then, but it had stayed in my mind since then.

After a discussion on Twitter, I decided to go ahead and make the purchase (once and for all) and I very much anticipated its arrival. Yesterday evening, I told my husband I wanted to read “a little”. He went to bed and I sat up until about 11:30 finishing off this tale by Craig Thompson. Yes, I read the entire book in one sitting.

Although graphic novels of great thickness can appear overwhelming — they are often pretty quick reads. This one took me maybe two hours to read.

Walking away from it – I felt a sense of sadness for Craig Thompson; both sadness and admiration. In this graphic memoir, he is very candid on his experiences during childhood and his feelings. You cannot help but read and sympathize with this person you’ve never met — but knowing he is indeed very real.

Blankets is a must read — plain and simple. If you are in the position where you need to read a memoir for whatever reason, but shiver at the fact that it’s not anything that you WANT to do .. pick up Blankets. It’s a tale that is anything but boring — and will keep you captivated until the very end.

I sure hope that Craig Thompson will write a sequel to this memoir, Blankets — as he has aged quite a bit since his childhood and young teenager-self. It would be nice to know what happened next, and what events took place that helped shape him into the successful graphic novelist he is today.

REVIEW: #59 YOU – Having a Baby

Title: You – Having a Baby. The  Owner’s Manual to a Healthy and Happy Pregnancy
Author: Michael F. Roizen & Mehmet C. Oz
ISBN: 1416572368
Pages: 464
[Rating:3.5]

Synopsis: (Taken from Amazon.com)

Can I get a cavity filled while pregnant? Will avoiding spicy foods make my kid a picky eater? Can I really increase my baby’s IQ while she’s in utero?

Whether you’re pregnant for the first time, are trying to start your family, or already have enough children to start your own basketball team, you’re bound to have questions about what it means to be pregnant — and how you can increase your odds of having a healthy and happy pregnancy. But no matter how much you’ve read, watched, studied, or talked about this amazing biological journey, you have never read anything like this.

In this groundbreaking book, Dr. Michael Roizen and Dr. Mehmet Oz act as mythbusters for the hundreds of questions surrounding pregnancy in the same scientific, informative, and entertaining ways that have made them America’s Doctors. In these pages, you’ll learn everything you need to know about the miracles of fetal development, your health throughout the pregnancy, and providing the best possible environment for your growing child.

Pregnancy is a complicated balancing act, but it doesn’t have to be frightening. The doctors will help you de-stress as they describe accurately and rationally what happens during a thrilling nine months of life. While every pregnant body is different, odds are you’ll experience some of the cravings, crying, and discomfort that almost all women go through. Your best tactic? Learn why these things are happening — and what you should do about them. YOU: Having a Baby will teach you everything you need to know about what to eat (should I be eating for two?), how much to exercise, and what guilty pleasures will actually make pregnancy easier on you (and the loved ones who get to be around you for the whole thing). Each phase of pregnancy has different challenges, but the right information will prepare you for what’s ahead. The interactive week-by-week calendar inside provides an even more detailed guideline for how and what you should feel through every step of the process.

Exciting, cutting-edge scientific research in the fi eld of epigenetics has changed the way the medical profession looks at pregnancy, and now it can change your perspective, too. Epigenetics explores what makes us develop in certain ways — why some people thrive at math while others are prone to chronic diseases. It turns out that there are easy things you can do that will not just help your baby’s development in utero but will actually improve his or her chances of living a healthy, fulfi lling adult life.

Filled with recipes for nutritious, satisfying snacks and meals even Pop can cook (yes, he can!), safe exercises for staying fit, and tons of YOU tips that will help you stay comfortable, YOU: Having a Baby is the ultimate guidebook for what to do from the moment of conception to the weeks after your child has arrived home. From morning sickness and food cravings to choosing a doctor and changing a diaper, YOU: Having a Baby will give you the real scoop about what’s in store for you during this amazing time in your life.

Review:

This book was a humorous way of looking at pregnancy. Even though I’ve read pretty much every pregnancy book out there, I have to say this was the most entertaining. It surely didn’t feel like 400 pages of non-fictional informational text! The pictures included also added a sense of ease when reading new concepts. I am not very science minded so I appreciated the visual aids.

A new concept was introduced which is really interesting and makes me wonder what I did while I was pregnant to turn on the “sweet & friendly” gene of my 19 month old. They theorize through a new medical finding/study that certain traits are turned off or on during pregnancy dependent on what the mother does/eats, etc. Now that I am pregnant again, I wonder daily what genes I am turning off and on.

I also got to understand morning sickness a little better. With my last pregnancy, I did not have any real big food aversions. With this one – I had quite a few. INCLUDING Soda! So for the most part, I’m drinking water ALL day. (Can’t complain!) :)

Overall – if you have to read a book on pregnancy, I recommend this one above all others. It’s informational, entertaining, and a fast read!